A pastor has authored a book which says it’s okay for singles to indulge in [email protected]:’ before marriage, Christian or not.
Having [email protected]:’ outside marriage even though accepted by society, is frowned upon by christians.
An author, Bromleigh McCleneghan, has attempted to explain why it may be okay to actually indulge in ‘guilt-free’ [email protected]:’ even as a single christian who doesn’t conform to the world (okay na).
According to her, it’s okay to have [email protected]:’ along as it’s “mutually pleasurable and affirming“. She also said it’s not by force to stay off [email protected]:’, especially if you became single by circumstance.
The married mother of three who is also an A.$$ociate pastor at the Union Church of Hinsdale in Chicago, USA, said it’s also great to be faithful to your [email protected]:’ual partner, even if you are both unmarried.
Here’s what she said below:
“If we refrain from having [email protected]:’ that isn’t mutually pleasurable and affirming, that doesn’t respect the sacred worth of ourselves and our partners…
Chastity, or just [email protected]:’, requires that whether we are married or unmarried, our [email protected]:’ lives restrain our egos, restrain our desire for physical pleasure when pursuing it would bring harm to self or other.”
What do you think?