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7 things to do if your man cumes too early

couple-in-bed-2It can be pretty frustrating when you look forward to a fulfilling and satisfying [email protected]:’ual experience, only for things to ‘finish’ before they’ve even begun.

It can be pretty frustrating when you look forward to a fulfilling and satisfying [email protected]:’ual experience, only for things to ‘finish’ before they’ve even begun.

Having [email protected]:’ with a man who can’t keep it up more than a few seconds, or who cums within moment of penetration can leave you feeling flat. So, what to you do to make sure you are also getting yours in the bedroom?

1. Don’t ignore the elephant:

The elephant in the room, that is. Whether this is an out-of-the-blue occurrence, or you have been dealing with this for a while, do make sure you talk to your partner about it. However, do not bring this up in the bedroom. Find a neutral ground and discuss openly. Let him know you enjoy making love to him and it is because you enjoy it that you feel a bit down when he finishes before you. If he is willing to communicate, he might be able to pinpoint a root cause so you can both find a solution. You can ask him what you can do to make things better. Most men want to last longer to please their women, so he should be willing to give you tips that will tone down his excitement.

2. Slow down:

Men who cum too early are not big fans of quickies. The excitement and thrill might be too much for them to contain. What works? Slow down. Keep things slow and easy. Enjoy a gentle foreplay and keep the [email protected]:’ light.

3. Choose positions wisely:

[email protected]:’ positions where women do more of the work are usually great for men with the quick draw. Go with Cowgirl, Reverse Cowgirl, or any position where you are in charge. This also lets you slow things down or even stop if you notice he is getting too excited. If he is in charge, he won’t be able to stop himself.

4. Use condoms:

This may not work for all men, but a lot of men do say using condoms desensitizes them to some extent. There are actually condoms in the market made for this purpose too. So, if you have been going skinny dipping before now, then you should consider getting some condoms.

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