How long you should last depends on a whole lot of things including [email protected]:’ual chemistry with your partner, how long it takes her to orgasm, how much foreplay time you put in, etc.
A lot of men out there worry that they are not lasting long enough in the bedroom to the satisfaction of their partner. They wonder if there is a specifically alloted time range for how long is too short or too long. The short answer is, there isn’t.
How long you should last depends on a whole lot of things including [email protected]:’ual chemistry with your partner, how long it takes her to orgasm, how much foreplay time you put in, etc. Your main focus is her pleasure, and not the clock. If she is leaving the [email protected]:’ session feeling satisfied, then you are doing well. But how do you know that she is not satisfied? Read on.
1. Still very wet
Wetness down there is a sign of arousal in women. It usually begins gradually and tapers off as things go on. The wetter she is, the more aroused she is. If by the time you come, she is still as wet as ever down there, then you finished way to fast and it’s time to head on to Plan B to make sure she finds her satisfaction too.
Also, since it takes some time for most women to be aroused, stopping when she is just beginning to get wet is definitely too early.
2. She uses her words
Some women are pretty direct. They can tell you when it’s fine to cum or when you should keep going. If she is passionately telling you not to stop, to keep doing what you are doing, and she is so into it that she is not even coherent, then she is not ready for it to be over. Finishing at that time will be a huge disappointment.
3. She looks disappointed
It can be really disheartening for a woman when a man cums too early, so much so that sometimes, she cannot help her facial expression. If you look for it, you will notice the look on her face that tells you you did not satisfy her.
4. She does not orgasm
Women love to cum too, and if she always seem really into it but does not cum, it might be because you did not hang in there long enough.